What keeps me from focusing on career?

My spouse is a sportsman wakes at 5am finishes at 8pm usually, and yes he is tired but we can make out and go straight to bed. Affairs will only happen if your spouse doesn't feel special anymore. What counts is that he takes me out to dinner and gives me little gifts from time to time so I know I am still special. He msgs in the daytime too to say he looks forward to seeing me which I appreciate. You will still be able to keep your spouse happy, and she will be attracted to your success.